The benefits of telling a story with a child

storytelling is what is most loved for new children who can talk with lots of vocabulary they just understand let alone 3 years old children they always want to tell when what has been in its nature.

Mothers let Get used chat with children. Build a strong bond of heart. Fertilize the child's faith in God. However, a child whose heart is tied to his mother also includes God in his steps Insha Allah will be more awake.


Get in the habit of chatting about daily activities with your child. Trivial indeed. Routines that may be boring. Create children and us. But from the nan little trivial chat, we can take care of the child.

It's hard to get kids out of the house in the present. But not healthy also if locked up at home only. My child is still in school. In fact, he is the type who really love in school. Want to arrive most of the morning and be picked up rather late because in school many friends play safe

I always ask about his activities while outdoors. My questions are usually related:

1. Feelings today
The goal is for children to know the various "hearts" so he knows what is felt can also empathize with others. If there is any pleasure or sadness I will ask more. For example, his stock was taken by a friend or he divided the food supplies among friends, hurt friends, do not intentionally do wrong, etc..

I keep the emotion indirectly explode angrily if there is a negative. Exploring how he feels like making a friend cry or a broken toy. He usually feels guilty so I am quite moment and end up appreciating when he realizes that he has learned from his mistakes.

If we often angry and give punishment for no reason later children are reluctant to open to us. If there is a good thing do not be stingy give praise. The goal is for children to recognize good behavior and bad behavior

2. Daily activities and routines of the child
The goal is to know what children have done outside the home. Already learned anything. There is a difficulty or not. How to pray for a bigger child. If prayers awake then God willing, he still remembers Allah so hope can keep themselves. I also from here can explore his activities with friends, teachers as well as other people who interact with him while outdoors.

3. Friends
The circle of friends now really should be taken care of. His influence on the child is terrible. So I have time to ask about my friends today. From here even I know who the child likes also who makes upset. If it can be better for parents with teachers also make friends so we make a network a stronger child safety circle.

4. Food and drink
Also, ask how food and drinks are eaten during outdoors. This is important for children's health. Especially for a larger child whose world is wider. Since the early introduction of halal food and Tayyip also healthy diet with a good way to eat. Good eating habits from home usually carried over until a big child is able to own snacks.

5. Things of interest today
Among the monotonous daily routine is usually tucked unusual interesting things. For example in conflict with friends, scolded by teachers, seeing things on the sidewalk, school field trips, swimming together, eating together, etc. Include the values of life according to the teachings of the religion of these things. So indirectly we nurture good values of life to the child.

Sometimes these chatting events are hard to get started. Our smart as parents to get into the world of children without being impressed interrogating or intervening too much. Create a family chat routine for example at dinner or before bed. If it is normal Insha Allah becomes easier.

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Just a moment for a mother to hold her child's little hand, but the mother will tie the child's heart with him forever despite the distance separating the two